I would like to apologize to all of my blog readers. I have not blogged in 17 days and that's a record for me. These past few weeks have been filled with 16th century literature and 8 page papers. I really do not have the desire to write about anything, so I don't. Blogging is a creative outlet for me, and even though my posts are sometimes boring, it is an activity that I truly enjoy.
That being said....I may not blog for a while. I plan on taking 3 weeks off between Spring and Summer semester to just "vege" out. My summer will be filled with school, school, and more school. Sucks for me, but if all goes well, I will graduate in December.
I will totally understand if you remove me from your blog list. Feel free to check in from time to time as I may experience a surge of creativity but don't count on me.
I am only human. It took me a while to realize this, but I totally get it. Honestly, I have run out of things to say....for now. Thanks for understanding. Later blog readers........
Monday, April 26, 2010
Sunday, April 11, 2010
The Temptations AKA The Temps
Well, another great Temptations concert! Had a blast! Best part: watching Blakely. 2nd Best Part: Having a conversation with Otis Williams, the sole surviving Temp, while he was onstage. We had a "moment" and it was AWESOME! Love these guys!
EACC Fine Arts Center is WONDERFUL! Not a bad seat in the house! Can't wait to see something else there ASAP. What a blessing for Forrest City!
I'm Turning the Other Cheek Today.....My Butt Cheek ;)
I have had one of "those" kind of weeks. Easter was absolutely wonderful, except for the fact that I forgot to get my KFC bucket! Not to mention, I ate waaayyyyyyy too many boiled eggs. I'll skip the details.
Monday, a little after lunch, my dad calls me and tells me that Mr. James Laws has been killed in a car wreck in Hattiesburg, MS and he's not sure about Mrs. Billye Jo. As a matter of fact, he's not even sure if the info is true but knows that I'm close to his youngest daughter, Gina. Please call her. I did. She didn't answer. She always answers so I pretty much could read between the lines. She did call me back, almost immediately, and yes, it was true. Her daddy did not survive but her mom, while seriously injured, did. My week has kind of been wrapped up into trying to be there for my friend whom I love dearly. It is just a horrible tragedy, but they are strong in their faith. Today is his memorial service. I will be there. He was a great guy. An educator, coach, and above all a devoted husband and father. He will be missed my soooo many, including my Dad. One thing I know for sure, life is unpredictable.
I am 2 weeks from finishing the Spring semester at ASU and am sorely in need of a break. A lot going on in my life, both personally and professionally, that I really need to slow down and pay attention before I make too many mistakes.
Apparently, I have written something offensive on my blog. Mind you, I have no idea what it is, but I can guarantee you that if you find it offensive.....quit reading it. It has managed to affect a very small part of my life. I'm really not surprised, but then again I am a bit. Blogging is hard. It's an online diary. It's not for everybody, but then again it is for everybody. I write what I feel and am completely comfortable with pouring out my thoughts. It is who I am. It is me. What I know for sure is that there are people in this world who are NEVER going to like me. Obviously, there are some who read my blog "looking" for something to dislike me even more. How sad it must be to carry around all of that negativity and mean-spiritedness. And that's all I have to say about that.
On to better stuff. I'm going to see the Temptations AGAIN tonight!!! I can hardly wait! I am taking my mom, stepdad, and Blakely. We are going to have a GREAT time!
Well, hope all have a wonderful week. Later blog readers.......
Monday, a little after lunch, my dad calls me and tells me that Mr. James Laws has been killed in a car wreck in Hattiesburg, MS and he's not sure about Mrs. Billye Jo. As a matter of fact, he's not even sure if the info is true but knows that I'm close to his youngest daughter, Gina. Please call her. I did. She didn't answer. She always answers so I pretty much could read between the lines. She did call me back, almost immediately, and yes, it was true. Her daddy did not survive but her mom, while seriously injured, did. My week has kind of been wrapped up into trying to be there for my friend whom I love dearly. It is just a horrible tragedy, but they are strong in their faith. Today is his memorial service. I will be there. He was a great guy. An educator, coach, and above all a devoted husband and father. He will be missed my soooo many, including my Dad. One thing I know for sure, life is unpredictable.
I am 2 weeks from finishing the Spring semester at ASU and am sorely in need of a break. A lot going on in my life, both personally and professionally, that I really need to slow down and pay attention before I make too many mistakes.
Apparently, I have written something offensive on my blog. Mind you, I have no idea what it is, but I can guarantee you that if you find it offensive.....quit reading it. It has managed to affect a very small part of my life. I'm really not surprised, but then again I am a bit. Blogging is hard. It's an online diary. It's not for everybody, but then again it is for everybody. I write what I feel and am completely comfortable with pouring out my thoughts. It is who I am. It is me. What I know for sure is that there are people in this world who are NEVER going to like me. Obviously, there are some who read my blog "looking" for something to dislike me even more. How sad it must be to carry around all of that negativity and mean-spiritedness. And that's all I have to say about that.
On to better stuff. I'm going to see the Temptations AGAIN tonight!!! I can hardly wait! I am taking my mom, stepdad, and Blakely. We are going to have a GREAT time!
Well, hope all have a wonderful week. Later blog readers.......
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Happy Birthday To Clifford Reneé Davis!
Clifford was born with a cleft palate and not expected to live. The breeders could have just let him die, but they dropper fed him and when he gained enough strength, they got him surgery to repair his cleft palate. They still advertised him as adoptable on their website, but didn't really think he would ever leave their home.
July 2003: The Davis family was looking for a dog. I stumbled across this website and immediately fell in love with the little white and black ball of fur. After discussing it with the family, and the breeder, we decided to buy Cliff. And believe me when I tell you this, he was NOT cheap. French Bulldogs are expensive little dogs, but we did get Cliff 1/2 off. But honestly, he's worth every bit as much as one of the "healthy" ones!
Blakely and I drove over four hours to pick him up. He rode all the way home with us without ANY trouble. He did bring his "baby" (stuffed toy) with him. Little did I know how important this baby was to him. I'll get to that in a sec.
Arriving in FC, Clifford won the hearts of the whole family immediately. He was just so darn cute! In spite of his handicap, we thought he was just perfect. However, over the years we have dealt with and are dealing with the following "issues":
1. Cleft palate, while repaired, still causes him trouble eating and drinking.
2. Born with the red mange, a skin disease. He can't help that he stinks. ;)
3. One of his testicles did not drop down. So when we went to repair, discovered not only did it not drop but it was wound around his intestines. That was horrible.
4. While repairing his little tatas (actually spaying him), the vet discovered not one, not two, but THREE hietal (sp) hernias. One still remains distended on his belly, while two were repaired.
5. He passes gas often and out loud.
6. He likes to take his paw and rub on his wee-wee. You'd have to see it to believe it.
7. He has lots of trouble breathing. He cannot get overheated, he could die.
8. He has ground down/lost most of his teeth.
9. He has lost most of his hearing.
10. He now has cataracts and can barely see.
11. Oh, and his tongue is too long for his mouth.
I could probably think of a couple of more, but I think this gives you a pretty good idea of just how "special" he is....and we wouldn't have him any other way. :)
Back to his "baby," because he never got to nurse on his momma, his baby is his substituted teat. He is not loyal to any of his baby toys. Santa has to bring him a new baby every Christmas. Usually, the baby lasts all year. Sometimes, I have to buy one before Santa can get here. It can't be just any stuffed animal either, it has to have a certain size nose and paws for optimum nursing. Again, you'd have to see this to believe it.
Yesterday, he turned 8 years old which is 56 in dog years. We can tell he is getting older. Not so much from all his medical issues (we are used to those), but because he's slowed down... a lot. I hope he lives forever, but I know that within the next few years our worst fears could happen. For now, though, we won't talk about it.
I am writing this because I never get to be the lovey dovey Cliff owner. I am his Alpha Dog. I am the one who makes sure he is taken care of. He may love AD and Blakely more, but he is loyal to me. I just wanted to write that I do love him and taking care of him is my way of showing it. Somebody's got to keep him out of prison. ;)
Hope you enjoyed reading about the 4th member of our family. We love him. Later blog readers......
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Steph's Top Ten List of I Should Be's.....
1. Writing ANOTHER paper instead of blogging.
2. Reading instead of Facebooking.
3. Dieting instead of pigging out.
4. Dancing instead of singing.
5. Drinking vodka instead of beer.
6. Ignoring instead of arguing.
7. Hiding instead of viewing.
8. Working instead of going to school.
9. Doing ab exercises instead of leg lifts.
and #10: Forgiving and forgetting. No instead needed. ;)
2. Reading instead of Facebooking.
3. Dieting instead of pigging out.
4. Dancing instead of singing.
5. Drinking vodka instead of beer.
6. Ignoring instead of arguing.
7. Hiding instead of viewing.
8. Working instead of going to school.
9. Doing ab exercises instead of leg lifts.
and #10: Forgiving and forgetting. No instead needed. ;)
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Historic Day
Like it, love it, hate it, or just plain don't care, TODAY is an historic day for our country. Following in the footsteps of the Emancipation Proclamation, Voting Rights Act, Civil Rights Act, ERA, and the Social Security Act, the Health Care Reform Bill is now law.
Yesterday, I ranted on my own blog for over an hour. I really spoke from my heart. My feelings had been hurt, and I basically poured them out all over cyberspace. I read and re-read it several times. Posted it anyways. Two hours later.....I deleted it. I sounded whiny and pious.....two character traits I absolutely despise. YIKES! The Chicken Littles of the world (and Facebook) got to me yesterday and I let two of them steal my joy. That being said, I have come to my senses and am following my own advice. SHOCKING! ROFL! I cannot control others thoughts, actions, words, or deeds. I can only control myself and my response to them. Keeping that in mind, I am going to post a link to a very witty friend of mine. He eloquently puts into words what I cannot. I am not asking you to agree with him, or me for that matter, but I do believe in the end it's about how you treat people that truly WILL matter.
www.rare2go.wordpress.com/2010/03/22/jesus-wants-you-to-be-sick-and-poor
And just because I feel like sharing: I have paid for medical insurance for me and my family for 20 years. I have NEVER been without coverage and NEVER will be. I consider it a necessity like the mortgage, water, basic groceries and electricity bills. If I get to a point I can't afford it, well then I cut my extravagances: ALL other bills not mentioned. Hellllooooo, my cable, cell, eating out, gym membership, etc. are NOT needed and will be the first to go before I fail to cover me and my family medically. I think everyone should have access to affordable health care and if that means digging a little deeper in my pockets to help those who can't (or won't) help themselves....well, that's what I'll do. Honestly, I never want to trade places with them.
OK, I'm over my whole rant. On to a lighter topic:
1. I've got Prince's "Kiss" song on the brain and can't seem to shake it.
2. I've eaten vegetable eggrolls today and feel extremely bloated.
3. Mitts decapitated a mole right in front of me. I'm nervous. LOL
Have a great day blog readers.......later.
Yesterday, I ranted on my own blog for over an hour. I really spoke from my heart. My feelings had been hurt, and I basically poured them out all over cyberspace. I read and re-read it several times. Posted it anyways. Two hours later.....I deleted it. I sounded whiny and pious.....two character traits I absolutely despise. YIKES! The Chicken Littles of the world (and Facebook) got to me yesterday and I let two of them steal my joy. That being said, I have come to my senses and am following my own advice. SHOCKING! ROFL! I cannot control others thoughts, actions, words, or deeds. I can only control myself and my response to them. Keeping that in mind, I am going to post a link to a very witty friend of mine. He eloquently puts into words what I cannot. I am not asking you to agree with him, or me for that matter, but I do believe in the end it's about how you treat people that truly WILL matter.
www.rare2go.wordpress.com/2010/03/22/jesus-wants-you-to-be-sick-and-poor
And just because I feel like sharing: I have paid for medical insurance for me and my family for 20 years. I have NEVER been without coverage and NEVER will be. I consider it a necessity like the mortgage, water, basic groceries and electricity bills. If I get to a point I can't afford it, well then I cut my extravagances: ALL other bills not mentioned. Hellllooooo, my cable, cell, eating out, gym membership, etc. are NOT needed and will be the first to go before I fail to cover me and my family medically. I think everyone should have access to affordable health care and if that means digging a little deeper in my pockets to help those who can't (or won't) help themselves....well, that's what I'll do. Honestly, I never want to trade places with them.
OK, I'm over my whole rant. On to a lighter topic:
1. I've got Prince's "Kiss" song on the brain and can't seem to shake it.
2. I've eaten vegetable eggrolls today and feel extremely bloated.
3. Mitts decapitated a mole right in front of me. I'm nervous. LOL
Have a great day blog readers.......later.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
I Am the Worst Kind
I am the worst kind of American. I am a thinker that truly looks at BOTH sides of ALL issues. I try to see and understand the basic fundamentals of anyone's way of thinking. That being said, I am no pushover pansy. While I appreciate our differences, I still have a mind of my own. Normally, I would not share my political leanings (left, middle, or right) with my readers, but alas, I'm feeling the need. Here's why.
I have been reading, for almost three months now, several pieces of literature written about the Vietnam War. I have cried over non-fiction accounts of Vietnam vets, as well as bawling over fictionalized vet characters. These works have affected me in a manner I wholly did not expect. But one main theme runs throughout all the works.......with our warts and all....we are still America. So many people/pundits spend soooooo much time pointing out all that is wrong with our country. Who is lifting us up? Have we really come to believe that we are as bad as they say we are??? Do our soldiers, our best and bravest, fight for a country that doesn't deserve their effort? I refuse to believe it. I know we have problems, but this hate speech that has taken hold of our nation has got to stop. My wishes are as follows:
1. Turn off FOX news and CNN or any cable news behemoth for that matter. They suck.
2. Talk to your congressman or congresswoman. Find out where they stand on the issues important to YOU and your family. But more importantly, know why you feel the way you do about the issues and do a LOT of research on them.
3. Don't just talk to hear yourself talk. Don't send stupid spam/alarmist email to your friends and family. Please, I beg of you!!!
4. Listen and respect the opposite side's opinion, even if it is absolutely ludicrous to you. We can learn a lot from just listening to each other. You don't have to agree but sometimes we CAN find a middle ground.
5. If #1-4 are totally out of the question for you, move to Canada. ;) Just kidding.
Well, I feel much better now. Thanks for listening. Later blog readers......
I have been reading, for almost three months now, several pieces of literature written about the Vietnam War. I have cried over non-fiction accounts of Vietnam vets, as well as bawling over fictionalized vet characters. These works have affected me in a manner I wholly did not expect. But one main theme runs throughout all the works.......with our warts and all....we are still America. So many people/pundits spend soooooo much time pointing out all that is wrong with our country. Who is lifting us up? Have we really come to believe that we are as bad as they say we are??? Do our soldiers, our best and bravest, fight for a country that doesn't deserve their effort? I refuse to believe it. I know we have problems, but this hate speech that has taken hold of our nation has got to stop. My wishes are as follows:
1. Turn off FOX news and CNN or any cable news behemoth for that matter. They suck.
2. Talk to your congressman or congresswoman. Find out where they stand on the issues important to YOU and your family. But more importantly, know why you feel the way you do about the issues and do a LOT of research on them.
3. Don't just talk to hear yourself talk. Don't send stupid spam/alarmist email to your friends and family. Please, I beg of you!!!
4. Listen and respect the opposite side's opinion, even if it is absolutely ludicrous to you. We can learn a lot from just listening to each other. You don't have to agree but sometimes we CAN find a middle ground.
5. If #1-4 are totally out of the question for you, move to Canada. ;) Just kidding.
Well, I feel much better now. Thanks for listening. Later blog readers......
Friday, March 19, 2010
Gosh, it's been FOREVER!
I've even gotten a year older since my last blog post!!! What?!?!? These past couple of weeks have been jam packed. I will catch y'all up in my famously boring "list" form..sorry.
1. I turned 42 on March 8. It was one of the best birthdays ever!! I had so many well wishes from friends that my heart just about burst.....and my head swelled a little. lol My good friend, LBJ, came over from Memphis and took me to lunch. My mom met us and I hauled in a birthday gift! ;) Love my momma! *My dad and aunt took me out for my bday the week before....got cash....LOVE my auntie and daddy* I got a mani-pedi and my massage therapist, Lisa Douglas (the BEST), gave me a gift certificate for a 1 hour massage! YES!! The day just got better and better. AD and Blakely showered me with gifts from Chez Weenie, which I can't quite figure out. AD and I never get each other anything for our birthdays. But hey, I love gifts sooooo I'm quite okay with the change. It was a beautiful, sunny day. Perfect...just perfect. I am ready for birthday #43!
2. Speaking of age, if someone asks me how old I am, I usually add five years to my actual age. I say, "I'm 47." Ladies...never EVER lie "down" your age. You just look pathetic and really bad. Trust me on this one. If you add to it, they will ALWAYS say....You don't look 47!! But if you say, oh, I'm 39 or 29 and holding...they just politely change the subject. Trust me on this one.
3. Blakely was on Spring Break starting last Friday. Soooo, we lit out for Tuscaloosa, Alabama where my good friend from high school, BTJ, lives. It also happens to be the home of the Crimson Tide. Let me just say that I didn't expect to really like Alabama. I don't know why. I mean I love Gulf Shores, but I'd never been to northern Ala. It is BEAUTIFUL! I love Tuscaloosa....LOVE it! I would soooo live there. It is only a little less than 4 hours from here PLUS it is only 4 hours from Destin, Florida; 2 hours from Atlanta; 3 hours from Nashville, Tenn; 2 hours from Chattanooga and 45 minutes from Birmingham, AL! It's got location, location, location!!! BTJ lives on a peninsula so we enjoyed lake views. We shopped at one of three malls and found really cool clothes for Blake. On Saturday, we went to Westervelt Werner Museum which has the 2nd largest collection of American Art/Artifacts in the country! It was AWESOME!! I love history and this museum was a mini-American history lesson in living color. Very cool! Then, we toured the University of Alabama. OK...this is going to take up another paragraph...
I am not a fan of the Houndstooth nation. There, I said it. I am a Razorback and I can't stand Alabama...but I like Tennessee less FYI. So, here I am with the biggest Roll Tide fan I know...Bama Bev and her minion in training...my daughter!! WHAT?!?! If you are a regular reader of my blog, you know my baby loves Florida. Gasp! But now.....Alabama. Good grief. But honestly, I must admit, the U of A has a BEAUTIFUL campus and a very nice, homey feel to it. I actually enjoyed myself! Not to mention their new stadium is HUGE. We ate at a local pub/restaurant on campus, Buffalo Phil's, and I began to melt a little. My kid was having sooo much fun. ***cue sound of a record skipping/scratching*** BTJ insists we go next door to the Alabama Express where one can buy all things elephant. OMG. I did manage to interject WOOOOO PIG several times during our walk through the store. I like to live dangerously. LOL I refused to purchase any item, although they did have some cute stuff. With a tear in her eye, BJT beamed with pride as my kid purchased (with her OWN money lol) a BAMA t-shirt and several houndstooth bracelets. Good Lord. There really isn't much left I can say.
We come home after a wonderful weekend and I am actually ready to go back for another visit! It's a great town with lots to do. I think we will be enjoying Tuscaloosa for many years to come. ;)
3. My Spring Break is this upcoming week. Of course, I will spend the entire week writing papers and practicing stupid Spanish. I don't want to talk about it. I met with my advisor and if I can get the Spanish out of the way, I am on tap to finish by Spring 2011. Yay!!!!!! I am super excited, and a tad nervous.
4. Update on my butterfly sista: she is doing famously with her 2nd heart transplant. She looks great, feels great, and is showing NO signs of rejection. Thank you God!!! I am sooo glad she is home. We all are! She feels a little self-conscious because the prednisone she has to take makes her face "as she says..look fat"...Her face looks flawless and beautiful!! I think prednisone is the next best thing to Botox!! Not a wrinkle on her almost 41 year old face!!!!! Seriously!
Other than all of this, it's been a wonderful couple of weeks. I am sorry about the lack of blog entries but I just didn't "feel" creative. Honestly, this entry isn't that creative, either. Later blog readers....
SIDEBAR: I am sick of the health care debate and I will not espouse my political views on this subject. But I WILL say...shame shame shame on Rush Limbaugh and Glenn Beck for dogging out an 11 year old child who lost his momma because of her lack of access to quality health care. And yes, I realize there are reasons they are trying to point out...manipulation by Obama..whatever...right is right and he's only 11. Do the right thing people!!
1. I turned 42 on March 8. It was one of the best birthdays ever!! I had so many well wishes from friends that my heart just about burst.....and my head swelled a little. lol My good friend, LBJ, came over from Memphis and took me to lunch. My mom met us and I hauled in a birthday gift! ;) Love my momma! *My dad and aunt took me out for my bday the week before....got cash....LOVE my auntie and daddy* I got a mani-pedi and my massage therapist, Lisa Douglas (the BEST), gave me a gift certificate for a 1 hour massage! YES!! The day just got better and better. AD and Blakely showered me with gifts from Chez Weenie, which I can't quite figure out. AD and I never get each other anything for our birthdays. But hey, I love gifts sooooo I'm quite okay with the change. It was a beautiful, sunny day. Perfect...just perfect. I am ready for birthday #43!
2. Speaking of age, if someone asks me how old I am, I usually add five years to my actual age. I say, "I'm 47." Ladies...never EVER lie "down" your age. You just look pathetic and really bad. Trust me on this one. If you add to it, they will ALWAYS say....You don't look 47!! But if you say, oh, I'm 39 or 29 and holding...they just politely change the subject. Trust me on this one.
3. Blakely was on Spring Break starting last Friday. Soooo, we lit out for Tuscaloosa, Alabama where my good friend from high school, BTJ, lives. It also happens to be the home of the Crimson Tide. Let me just say that I didn't expect to really like Alabama. I don't know why. I mean I love Gulf Shores, but I'd never been to northern Ala. It is BEAUTIFUL! I love Tuscaloosa....LOVE it! I would soooo live there. It is only a little less than 4 hours from here PLUS it is only 4 hours from Destin, Florida; 2 hours from Atlanta; 3 hours from Nashville, Tenn; 2 hours from Chattanooga and 45 minutes from Birmingham, AL! It's got location, location, location!!! BTJ lives on a peninsula so we enjoyed lake views. We shopped at one of three malls and found really cool clothes for Blake. On Saturday, we went to Westervelt Werner Museum which has the 2nd largest collection of American Art/Artifacts in the country! It was AWESOME!! I love history and this museum was a mini-American history lesson in living color. Very cool! Then, we toured the University of Alabama. OK...this is going to take up another paragraph...
I am not a fan of the Houndstooth nation. There, I said it. I am a Razorback and I can't stand Alabama...but I like Tennessee less FYI. So, here I am with the biggest Roll Tide fan I know...Bama Bev and her minion in training...my daughter!! WHAT?!?! If you are a regular reader of my blog, you know my baby loves Florida. Gasp! But now.....Alabama. Good grief. But honestly, I must admit, the U of A has a BEAUTIFUL campus and a very nice, homey feel to it. I actually enjoyed myself! Not to mention their new stadium is HUGE. We ate at a local pub/restaurant on campus, Buffalo Phil's, and I began to melt a little. My kid was having sooo much fun. ***cue sound of a record skipping/scratching*** BTJ insists we go next door to the Alabama Express where one can buy all things elephant. OMG. I did manage to interject WOOOOO PIG several times during our walk through the store. I like to live dangerously. LOL I refused to purchase any item, although they did have some cute stuff. With a tear in her eye, BJT beamed with pride as my kid purchased (with her OWN money lol) a BAMA t-shirt and several houndstooth bracelets. Good Lord. There really isn't much left I can say.
We come home after a wonderful weekend and I am actually ready to go back for another visit! It's a great town with lots to do. I think we will be enjoying Tuscaloosa for many years to come. ;)
3. My Spring Break is this upcoming week. Of course, I will spend the entire week writing papers and practicing stupid Spanish. I don't want to talk about it. I met with my advisor and if I can get the Spanish out of the way, I am on tap to finish by Spring 2011. Yay!!!!!! I am super excited, and a tad nervous.
4. Update on my butterfly sista: she is doing famously with her 2nd heart transplant. She looks great, feels great, and is showing NO signs of rejection. Thank you God!!! I am sooo glad she is home. We all are! She feels a little self-conscious because the prednisone she has to take makes her face "as she says..look fat"...Her face looks flawless and beautiful!! I think prednisone is the next best thing to Botox!! Not a wrinkle on her almost 41 year old face!!!!! Seriously!
Other than all of this, it's been a wonderful couple of weeks. I am sorry about the lack of blog entries but I just didn't "feel" creative. Honestly, this entry isn't that creative, either. Later blog readers....
SIDEBAR: I am sick of the health care debate and I will not espouse my political views on this subject. But I WILL say...shame shame shame on Rush Limbaugh and Glenn Beck for dogging out an 11 year old child who lost his momma because of her lack of access to quality health care. And yes, I realize there are reasons they are trying to point out...manipulation by Obama..whatever...right is right and he's only 11. Do the right thing people!!
Friday, March 5, 2010
52 Days and Another New Heart Later
52 days and another new heart later, my friend AJ is HOME from her SECOND heart transplant!!! A walking, talking, living, breathing miracle!!! We are so glad to have her home.....words simply cannot express. Here are some pics (as promised!) of her homecoming. And a special thanks to all who decorated. You know who you are. ;) Enjoy!
Now these are some HAPPY folks!!!!!!!! ;)
"The greatest treasures are those invisible to the eye but found by the heart."
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
I Just
I just suck at blogging right now. I usually think of something to write about in the two a.m. hour but am too lazy to haul my butt up out of the bed! I read somewhere that one should keep paper and pen on their nightstand for times just like that! WhatEVA. I cannot even think about trying to literally focus my eyeballs in the bleary stage between being awake and asleep. I can barely see in the light, much less in the dead of night. Good grief. Writers must really be "special" and I'm not feeling that special. So, you'll just have to humor me through my dry spell. lol
I am just sick and tired of American Idol. I don't like ANY of them really. Of course the eye candy, Casey James, is my "Ace" and he's really the only reason I watch it. I don't like Ellen. I don't like Kara. I'm not real happy with Randy Dawg. And Simon is really too well behaved this season. What the heck?!?!? Bring back Paula who obviously drinks spiked Diet Coke. THAT was entertainment! I'm sooo over it.
I just love the Amazing Race! ***Jake, I am going to go on the show. I've printed the app! Be jealous*** I would so win this show. I can eat anything, drink anything, drive anything, and make friends! Look for me. I have no partner but whatever. LOL
I am just ready for Spring Break. Really there's no need for an explanation here. My teacher friends get this and even though I no longer teach, I still feel their pain. I have a 5th grader, remember? lol
Well, hope all is well. I hope to have a special blog entry on Friday with pictures. My butterfly sista is coming home. Yay! ;)
Later blog readers.......
I am just sick and tired of American Idol. I don't like ANY of them really. Of course the eye candy, Casey James, is my "Ace" and he's really the only reason I watch it. I don't like Ellen. I don't like Kara. I'm not real happy with Randy Dawg. And Simon is really too well behaved this season. What the heck?!?!? Bring back Paula who obviously drinks spiked Diet Coke. THAT was entertainment! I'm sooo over it.
I just love the Amazing Race! ***Jake, I am going to go on the show. I've printed the app! Be jealous*** I would so win this show. I can eat anything, drink anything, drive anything, and make friends! Look for me. I have no partner but whatever. LOL
I am just ready for Spring Break. Really there's no need for an explanation here. My teacher friends get this and even though I no longer teach, I still feel their pain. I have a 5th grader, remember? lol
Well, hope all is well. I hope to have a special blog entry on Friday with pictures. My butterfly sista is coming home. Yay! ;)
Later blog readers.......
Thursday, February 25, 2010
I'm Back
I realize it's been forever since I posted. I would like to say I've been really, really busy. Actually, I've just been uninspired. Sad but true. My apologies. Where to begin?
Last Friday night I went out with a group of "old" high school buds. We went to Memphis to eat at the Blue Fin, a sushi joint. FIVE Vodka tonics and TWO beers later......I'm in da club on Beale. WTHeck?!?!?!? I'm sooooooo not clubbing age. And for the record, nobody I was with is EITHER! LOL It's pretty sobering (not literally dangit) to realize that I am no longer a cool hoochie momma. I might could shake my groove thing for a couple of minutes on the dance floor, but anything past that could require a wheelchair. I mean I out aged everybody in there (except my buds) by at LEAST 20 YEARS. Needless to say, we didn't last long in there. Thank the Lord! Next time we are going to a hip coffee house with some indie music and maybe a shot of espresso. That's it. And I'm OK with that! ;)
Fast forward to Monday morning. Things progressively deteriorated from semi-okay to all out smackdown before 8 a.m. between my little one and me. The pre-teen years are not fun, not fun at ALL. I'm sooooo not gonna make it. I grounded her for one week and have stuck to it. Don't mess with the Momma. For the record, I am not her friend. I am her mother. I know some people are best buds with their kids, but I'm not wired that way. I love her and will always be here for her, but I'm not on this Earth to be her "friend". Please don't send me hate mail if you disagree. This is my blog. If you don't agree, don't read it. I know this sounds harsh, but honestly, I don't care. I'm just practical. It's a harsh world out there and I want my child to be prepared. She's not always going to win, get her way, have everything handed to her; everybody's not always going to like her, agree with her, etc. The point is I'm raising an individual to BE an individual. I want her to be comfortable in her own skin, find her own path, and be happy. I do have a method to my madness, I promise. ;)
Wow, I didn't really intend to go off on that tangent. I'm probably going to look back on this post and cringe. Heck, I'm not even into the vino yet! Let's lighten things up. How about American Idol? So far, I'm extremely disappointed. I like a few but not many. What will I do once the Olympics are over???? I guess I'll read my British Lit. Yippee.
Speaking of, I had mid-terms today. I did okay. Glad they're over and am ready for this entire semester to end. Wishing my life away.
Well, hope all have a wonderful week. I'll try to update before the weekend. Later blog readers.....
*****For the record, I thought Tiger's apology was stupid and unnecessary. :)
Last Friday night I went out with a group of "old" high school buds. We went to Memphis to eat at the Blue Fin, a sushi joint. FIVE Vodka tonics and TWO beers later......I'm in da club on Beale. WTHeck?!?!?!? I'm sooooooo not clubbing age. And for the record, nobody I was with is EITHER! LOL It's pretty sobering (not literally dangit) to realize that I am no longer a cool hoochie momma. I might could shake my groove thing for a couple of minutes on the dance floor, but anything past that could require a wheelchair. I mean I out aged everybody in there (except my buds) by at LEAST 20 YEARS. Needless to say, we didn't last long in there. Thank the Lord! Next time we are going to a hip coffee house with some indie music and maybe a shot of espresso. That's it. And I'm OK with that! ;)
Fast forward to Monday morning. Things progressively deteriorated from semi-okay to all out smackdown before 8 a.m. between my little one and me. The pre-teen years are not fun, not fun at ALL. I'm sooooo not gonna make it. I grounded her for one week and have stuck to it. Don't mess with the Momma. For the record, I am not her friend. I am her mother. I know some people are best buds with their kids, but I'm not wired that way. I love her and will always be here for her, but I'm not on this Earth to be her "friend". Please don't send me hate mail if you disagree. This is my blog. If you don't agree, don't read it. I know this sounds harsh, but honestly, I don't care. I'm just practical. It's a harsh world out there and I want my child to be prepared. She's not always going to win, get her way, have everything handed to her; everybody's not always going to like her, agree with her, etc. The point is I'm raising an individual to BE an individual. I want her to be comfortable in her own skin, find her own path, and be happy. I do have a method to my madness, I promise. ;)
Wow, I didn't really intend to go off on that tangent. I'm probably going to look back on this post and cringe. Heck, I'm not even into the vino yet! Let's lighten things up. How about American Idol? So far, I'm extremely disappointed. I like a few but not many. What will I do once the Olympics are over???? I guess I'll read my British Lit. Yippee.
Speaking of, I had mid-terms today. I did okay. Glad they're over and am ready for this entire semester to end. Wishing my life away.
Well, hope all have a wonderful week. I'll try to update before the weekend. Later blog readers.....
*****For the record, I thought Tiger's apology was stupid and unnecessary. :)
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
My Body's in Arkansas but My Mind is in Hawaii (or the Sahara desert)
I am beyond tired of this cold, frigid, arctic weather. I miss the warmth of the Delta sun. I miss short sleeves, air conditioning, and flip-flops. Can we please move on into summer? Seriously. I'm not "made" for winter weather. Heavy clothes bind me. It's never too hot for me. I think I'm actually part reptilian..okay, maybe just cold-blooded. LOL I want to lay out by the pool and read a great book and maybe take a dip in the pool. I want to smell like coconut oil. I want to feel the warm breeze and yes, even swat our state bird...the mosquito. I WANT my Arkansas weather pattern back to NORMAL. This is NOT normal.
Normal is an Indian Summer that heads into a long Fall. An "if you blink your eyes you'll miss it" Winter. A short, but beautiful, Spring. Then about SIX months of SUMMER!!! This is probably some El Niño crap we're experiencing, so I hope it's just a fluke. I don't want a repeat of it next year. I'm just saying. ;)
It is absolutely no fun walking to class in below freezing temps. I look like the Michelin Man. On the upside, the extra weight from the clothes is giving me quite the workout. LOL
Okay, enough about the weather.
I'm almost halfway through this semester. It's been relatively easy to this point but it's fixing to get pretty dicey. I have four papers (that I know of) to write and one book review. Yippy! But I really LOVE my classes. Well, except for one which I won't dignify with a shout out on my blog.
Blakely has to get braces. Random thought here but I think I pretty much can forget getting a MacBook. Oh well, parenting is a "give up" job. LOL
American Idol is getting on my nerves. I like Ellen but I really don't like her as a judge. Honestly, there are so many great singers this competition I can't tell them apart. My early faves are the chick with the lip ring, Big Mike, and that guy with long blonde hair. He kind of reminds me of the Naked Cowboy in NYC.
The Olympics keep me pretty much glued to the tube. I LOVE the Winter Olympics! Great back stories. My favorite Olympian this year is Canadian. I think Alexander Billedot (sp) is absolutely the best thing since sliced bread. I'm so glad he won the gold! I can tell he's just a very nice young man with a gentle soul. LOVE him! No disrespect to Team USA.
Well, hope all have a wonderful week. I'm paying bills and doing Spanish homework today. Joy unsurpassed. LOL Later.....
Normal is an Indian Summer that heads into a long Fall. An "if you blink your eyes you'll miss it" Winter. A short, but beautiful, Spring. Then about SIX months of SUMMER!!! This is probably some El Niño crap we're experiencing, so I hope it's just a fluke. I don't want a repeat of it next year. I'm just saying. ;)
It is absolutely no fun walking to class in below freezing temps. I look like the Michelin Man. On the upside, the extra weight from the clothes is giving me quite the workout. LOL
Okay, enough about the weather.
I'm almost halfway through this semester. It's been relatively easy to this point but it's fixing to get pretty dicey. I have four papers (that I know of) to write and one book review. Yippy! But I really LOVE my classes. Well, except for one which I won't dignify with a shout out on my blog.
Blakely has to get braces. Random thought here but I think I pretty much can forget getting a MacBook. Oh well, parenting is a "give up" job. LOL
American Idol is getting on my nerves. I like Ellen but I really don't like her as a judge. Honestly, there are so many great singers this competition I can't tell them apart. My early faves are the chick with the lip ring, Big Mike, and that guy with long blonde hair. He kind of reminds me of the Naked Cowboy in NYC.
The Olympics keep me pretty much glued to the tube. I LOVE the Winter Olympics! Great back stories. My favorite Olympian this year is Canadian. I think Alexander Billedot (sp) is absolutely the best thing since sliced bread. I'm so glad he won the gold! I can tell he's just a very nice young man with a gentle soul. LOVE him! No disrespect to Team USA.
Well, hope all have a wonderful week. I'm paying bills and doing Spanish homework today. Joy unsurpassed. LOL Later.....
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Love is Patient, Love is Kind
I googled the history of this holiday because I was curious. I remembered, fuzzily, something about a priest who became a saint. Miracle of miracles....I was right! LOL Anyhoo, Valentine the Priest, defied Claudius (scary Roman emperor) by marrying couples in love. He was found out and executed. Became a saint. End of story.
Flash forward to 2010. Valentine's Day is about sending the one, or ones, you love a card, flowers, candy, jewelry, stuffed animal, etc. It's also the holiday a lot of people choose to become engaged or even get married. It's romantic, sweet, and wonderful IF you have an admirer, lover, significant other, or spouse. Not so much if you are unattached. Not so much if you are "down on love" or just plain depressed. It's a pretty crappy holiday for those.
Me and AD don't really celebrate Vday. It's the day after his birthday and well, I don't want him spending money on flowers. LOL We just kind of try to not have a repeat of the Valentine's Day Massacre (google it!) at our house and he picks up after himself without me telling him to. LOL But for our baby, we still do the whole stuffed animal/present route. That's where our true love will always be bonded. THAT's our valentine EVERY day of the week. Awwwwww. ;)
OK, off of Valentine's and onto reality.
The snow is finally melting!!! Yay!! I am soooooo ready for warmer days. And can I just say how fast this year is flying by? What the heck? I'm not complaining because the faster it goes, the faster I get done with school. Speaking of school, I have it all mapped out. Basically, I won't have a summer. But that's OK. It's a small price to pay. I will be only 6 hours short of my Master's. But I also have to pass THREE tests to get the dang thing. At this point, I'm not ready. By end of summer, I better be.
Speaking of summer, I'll just have to take a late summer vacay. I'm going to make it a really, really good one. I'm planning on taking Blakely to Boston, DC, and NYC. Cross fingers PLEASE.
Blakely's school raised tuition. I really don't have a problem with it, but I would like to know exactly where the money goes. I know what the teachers make....and it definitely doesn't go to them (well, maybe a few) but NOT the ones in the trenches. I'll shut up on that. This is in print and I don't feel like defending my words....yet.
Well, hope all have a wonderful President's Day holiday. If you don't know why we have that one, well google or bing it! lol
To my butterfly sister in Memphis: A VERY special and HAPPY HEART day to you! This is YOUR day! ;)
Later blog readers.....
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
OK, ENOUGH Already
Let me begin this post by declaring the following:
I live in Arkansas NOT Alaska.
That being said, I have enjoyed the snowfall but now it's time for Spring. The snow is beautiful and all, but ENOUGH already. Cabin fever is kind of an understated emotion right now. LOL
I'm just not used to this kind of weather. I don't think ANY of us here in the Delta of Arkansas are used to it. Schools are closed all over and even ASU closed these past two days. Honestly, I could never live in a "snow" state. All I've done for the past FIVE days is eat, sleep, eat, sleep, eat some more, eat some more, eat some more, sleep, etc. I think you get the picture. I would weigh 500 lbs easily if this were the norm. I haven't even been able to get to the gym. Tragic! LOL
On the upside, it is fun to play in the white stuff. Below is a pic of Blakely driving the Rhino "fancy" 4-wheeler with me riding shotgun.
Hopefully, things will get back to normal pretty soon here in the Natural State. However, apparently we are in for a little more precipitation this weekend. Gosh, I really hope the weathermen are wrong AGAIN. I'm ready for flip-flop weather!
Not much else going on. I'll try to come up with something a little more entertaining for the next entry. Later blog readers.......
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Tuna Salad, Momma, Precious & Wordsworth
Tuesday evening AD made some tuna fish salad. I had not eaten yet, and really wasn't very hungry, so I told him I'd finish whatever he didn't eat. I took one bite of the tuna salad and said, and I quote, "this is the worst tuna fish I've ever eaten AD." Of course, I continued eating it. He never made that good of tuna salad anyway, so I just figured it was something weird he added. My stomach starting hurting a little bit in the middle of the night.
Wednesday morning it was hurting a lot. I'll spare you the details, but it called for vast quantities of Imodium & Pepto. Seriously, ILL. I called AD and told him of my difficulties. Turns out he'd had a few "difficulties" as well, but not near as bad as me. Of course, I'm 1 foot shorter and 100 lbs lighter. Go figure. Just for kicks, I go check the expiration date on the mayo. I won't tell you the results, but let's just say, I found the culprit. Blech and double blech!!! I probably will not be eating tuna salad EVER again.
I only survived this episode because of my momma. I called her. She came over armed with Diet Sprite & Pepto (I already had the Imodium!). I love my momma. Period.
I've kind of been trying to act cooler than I actually am lately. I think it's because my birthday is coming up. I looked in the mirror yesterday and I knew I was older. Not that I didn't realize that I AM older, I just now noticed that I'm LOOKING older. Not happy about that. Pestering AD about some "procedures" that I think I would enjoy. I know some people are totally against that sort of thing, I just don't happen to be one of those people. When did this aging thing take me over?!?!?!? For pete's sake, I'm doing every thing I can to stay "mentally" young, and I even work out regularly. But the face IS what the face IS. And the neck. Don't even get me started on my neck! I'll keep you posted on this when, not if, I get a "procedure." ;)
I bought a couple of books on Thursday. "Slaughterhouse Five" which I'm ashamed to say I've never read and "Push," the novel the movie Precious is based on. "Push" has got me gripped. I barely took time out to blog today because of it. It is a difficult read because of the subject matter. However, I LOVE this book. I know this girl. Social work introduced me to several Precious's. Here's what I would like to share with my blog readers and I hope I don't offend:
1. Each person living in this world is a human being. Divinely created in the image of God. I know this last statement some may disagree with, but it is how I choose to believe. I have no doubts. That being said #
2. It is hard enough living in this world just being "you." YOU are supposed to be different. WE are supposed to embrace differences because, through those differences, we learn and become better human beings.
3. Do not judge others...period. That doesn't mean you like everybody or agree with everybody but you don't really know a person unless you know their personal history. Experiences shape a person. Some experiences are so devasting and/or negative, that a person may not be able to see past the experience. A lot of times what you THINK you KNOW/understand is wayyyyy off base.
4. I think it boils down to respect, compassion, and tolerance. The last two, to me, are the best teachings Jesus brought to the table. Pray for the right path and the right way and it will be shown.
5. Nobody's perfect. I fail miserably at 2-4 just like everybody else. Why? Because I'm human. But that doesn't mean I don't know the difference or stop trying to get it right.
I will leave you with the words of Williams Wordsworth that begin the book "Push":
If thou be one whose heart the holy forms
Of young imagination have kept pure,
Stranger! henceforth be warned; and know, that pride,
Howe'er disguised in its own majesty,
Is littleness; that he who feels contempt
For any living thing, hath faculties
Which he has never used; that thought with him
Is in its infancy. The man, whose eye
is ever on himself, doth look on one,
The least of nature's works, one who might move
The wise man to that scorn which wisdom holds
Unlawful, ever. O, be wiser thou!
Instructed that true knowledge leads to love...
Wednesday morning it was hurting a lot. I'll spare you the details, but it called for vast quantities of Imodium & Pepto. Seriously, ILL. I called AD and told him of my difficulties. Turns out he'd had a few "difficulties" as well, but not near as bad as me. Of course, I'm 1 foot shorter and 100 lbs lighter. Go figure. Just for kicks, I go check the expiration date on the mayo. I won't tell you the results, but let's just say, I found the culprit. Blech and double blech!!! I probably will not be eating tuna salad EVER again.
I only survived this episode because of my momma. I called her. She came over armed with Diet Sprite & Pepto (I already had the Imodium!). I love my momma. Period.
I've kind of been trying to act cooler than I actually am lately. I think it's because my birthday is coming up. I looked in the mirror yesterday and I knew I was older. Not that I didn't realize that I AM older, I just now noticed that I'm LOOKING older. Not happy about that. Pestering AD about some "procedures" that I think I would enjoy. I know some people are totally against that sort of thing, I just don't happen to be one of those people. When did this aging thing take me over?!?!?!? For pete's sake, I'm doing every thing I can to stay "mentally" young, and I even work out regularly. But the face IS what the face IS. And the neck. Don't even get me started on my neck! I'll keep you posted on this when, not if, I get a "procedure." ;)
I bought a couple of books on Thursday. "Slaughterhouse Five" which I'm ashamed to say I've never read and "Push," the novel the movie Precious is based on. "Push" has got me gripped. I barely took time out to blog today because of it. It is a difficult read because of the subject matter. However, I LOVE this book. I know this girl. Social work introduced me to several Precious's. Here's what I would like to share with my blog readers and I hope I don't offend:
1. Each person living in this world is a human being. Divinely created in the image of God. I know this last statement some may disagree with, but it is how I choose to believe. I have no doubts. That being said #
2. It is hard enough living in this world just being "you." YOU are supposed to be different. WE are supposed to embrace differences because, through those differences, we learn and become better human beings.
3. Do not judge others...period. That doesn't mean you like everybody or agree with everybody but you don't really know a person unless you know their personal history. Experiences shape a person. Some experiences are so devasting and/or negative, that a person may not be able to see past the experience. A lot of times what you THINK you KNOW/understand is wayyyyy off base.
4. I think it boils down to respect, compassion, and tolerance. The last two, to me, are the best teachings Jesus brought to the table. Pray for the right path and the right way and it will be shown.
5. Nobody's perfect. I fail miserably at 2-4 just like everybody else. Why? Because I'm human. But that doesn't mean I don't know the difference or stop trying to get it right.
I will leave you with the words of Williams Wordsworth that begin the book "Push":
If thou be one whose heart the holy forms
Of young imagination have kept pure,
Stranger! henceforth be warned; and know, that pride,
Howe'er disguised in its own majesty,
Is littleness; that he who feels contempt
For any living thing, hath faculties
Which he has never used; that thought with him
Is in its infancy. The man, whose eye
is ever on himself, doth look on one,
The least of nature's works, one who might move
The wise man to that scorn which wisdom holds
Unlawful, ever. O, be wiser thou!
Instructed that true knowledge leads to love...
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Let Me Just Begin by Saying
I am going to write a book. I don't know how and I don't know when, but I know I will need to do it before I lose all my mental faculties. Of course, I probably should hurry up! LOL
Now for some randomness. Every good blog needs a little useless banter. ;)
1. Snow days are not for me. I totally turn into a slug. I wake up (barely), I eat anything carb-y, I nap (often after eating), I wake to eat again, I watch television (a rare treat), and I eat AGAIN. Then I go to bed and start all over again the next day. It's very counterproductive to my delicate zen balance. But on the upside:
2. I watch really great movies. I watched Doctor Zhivago (TWICE). It was the new one with Kiera Knightley as Lara. I never thought I would find a replacement for my Omar Sharif, but this new Yuri is the BOMB! And I don't even know his name. I could google but I kind of like the not knowing. I then watched Twilight. I've read the book (not a fan), actually I've read all of them, but I really like the movie. Finally, I watched Madame Bovary. Man, that's a piece of literature that will stay with you for quite some time. She was one sad and twisted chick. But I always feel the most sorry for poor Dr. Charles Bovary. Pitiful. Which leads me to:
3. 16th century literature. I LOVE it. This kind of freaks me out. I think it's because I have such an awesome professor. She really makes the stories come alive. I love all of the behind the scene nuances that I would've never "got" without taking this class.
OK, enough random thoughts. I have two more items of interest I would like to share with you:
1. My friend "A" took a turn for the worse a couple of days ago. We're talking critical. But with the power of prayer, the hands of the medical staff, and A's sheer will to live, she made it through. She has a long road of recovery ahead but I have NO doubt she will recover. Positive thinking and prayer. You just can't beat that combo.
2. Today is my momma's birthday! I'm so thankful I still have my mom. I talk to her every single day. She's the coolest mom I know and I love her. I won't tell you her age because frankly, she would kill me. But I will say she doesn't look near as old as she actually is. Gah, I hope she's not reading this! LOL
Have a great week blog readers! Later.....
Now for some randomness. Every good blog needs a little useless banter. ;)
1. Snow days are not for me. I totally turn into a slug. I wake up (barely), I eat anything carb-y, I nap (often after eating), I wake to eat again, I watch television (a rare treat), and I eat AGAIN. Then I go to bed and start all over again the next day. It's very counterproductive to my delicate zen balance. But on the upside:
2. I watch really great movies. I watched Doctor Zhivago (TWICE). It was the new one with Kiera Knightley as Lara. I never thought I would find a replacement for my Omar Sharif, but this new Yuri is the BOMB! And I don't even know his name. I could google but I kind of like the not knowing. I then watched Twilight. I've read the book (not a fan), actually I've read all of them, but I really like the movie. Finally, I watched Madame Bovary. Man, that's a piece of literature that will stay with you for quite some time. She was one sad and twisted chick. But I always feel the most sorry for poor Dr. Charles Bovary. Pitiful. Which leads me to:
3. 16th century literature. I LOVE it. This kind of freaks me out. I think it's because I have such an awesome professor. She really makes the stories come alive. I love all of the behind the scene nuances that I would've never "got" without taking this class.
OK, enough random thoughts. I have two more items of interest I would like to share with you:
1. My friend "A" took a turn for the worse a couple of days ago. We're talking critical. But with the power of prayer, the hands of the medical staff, and A's sheer will to live, she made it through. She has a long road of recovery ahead but I have NO doubt she will recover. Positive thinking and prayer. You just can't beat that combo.
2. Today is my momma's birthday! I'm so thankful I still have my mom. I talk to her every single day. She's the coolest mom I know and I love her. I won't tell you her age because frankly, she would kill me. But I will say she doesn't look near as old as she actually is. Gah, I hope she's not reading this! LOL
Have a great week blog readers! Later.....
Friday, January 29, 2010
Power
I was going to post yesterday, but honestly I was just too emotional. Here's why:
I was jolted awake by the ringing of the telephone a little after 5 a.m. yesterday morning. The voice on the other end of the line was filled with nervousness, excitement, and hope. I didn't need to ask who it was I was talking to. I knew immediately. My friend's sister, who happens to be my friend as well, was getting a new heart!!! For those of my blog readers who have not a clue of the magnitude of this announcement, let me try to explain A's story.
At the age of 30, A became pregnant with her first child. Complications arose that basically caused her heart to fail. She delivered a healthy baby boy and awaited a heart transplant. She received one and for the next 8 years she did her very best to live life to the fullest. Off and on for the past two years, her "new" heart began to reject/fail her. And for the past 6 months, she has literally been living on borrowed time. This last month, well, to say it's been scary for her and her family would be a gross understatement. She could not last much longer without a new heart. Receiving a heart transplant once is a miracle, receiving a second....well, isn't very common.
One week ago today, they released A back home because they had done what they could do and she wanted to come home. Less than 12 hours after returning home, she had another heart attack. This was it. In the hospital she would remain, bumped up on the transplant waiting list. She was weak, exhausted, but never without hope. I don't think people realize how tough she and her family really are...this transplant stuff is not for the weak of heart (no pun intended).
Fast forward to today. After the power of prayer and the miracle hand of God, A is stable and recovering from her second heart transplant. Her new heart is strong and beating on its on. She has a long road of recovery ahead of her, but it'll be a snap from where she's come from.
For those who are skeptical of prayer/miracles/God, I'm not trying to convert you. I just know what I know for a fact. God is real. He listens. He answers prayers whether it be a yes, no, or maybe. I only hope one day if you are one in doubt that you can open yourself up for the blessings only He can bestow. Faith is tangible. Believe it. "A" is living proof.
I'm just thankful that maybe my friend can relax a little. This past year has been just as hard on her as it has been for her sister. Let go and let God.
On a weather note....Today is a snow day!!!! Well, a sleet/rain/snow mix day but I'll take it. Blakely and AD can't wait to go sledding! I hope it snows enough so they can...I need a quiet snow day if you get my drift. LOL
Well, bundle up blog readers and stay warm. Later.....
I was jolted awake by the ringing of the telephone a little after 5 a.m. yesterday morning. The voice on the other end of the line was filled with nervousness, excitement, and hope. I didn't need to ask who it was I was talking to. I knew immediately. My friend's sister, who happens to be my friend as well, was getting a new heart!!! For those of my blog readers who have not a clue of the magnitude of this announcement, let me try to explain A's story.
At the age of 30, A became pregnant with her first child. Complications arose that basically caused her heart to fail. She delivered a healthy baby boy and awaited a heart transplant. She received one and for the next 8 years she did her very best to live life to the fullest. Off and on for the past two years, her "new" heart began to reject/fail her. And for the past 6 months, she has literally been living on borrowed time. This last month, well, to say it's been scary for her and her family would be a gross understatement. She could not last much longer without a new heart. Receiving a heart transplant once is a miracle, receiving a second....well, isn't very common.
One week ago today, they released A back home because they had done what they could do and she wanted to come home. Less than 12 hours after returning home, she had another heart attack. This was it. In the hospital she would remain, bumped up on the transplant waiting list. She was weak, exhausted, but never without hope. I don't think people realize how tough she and her family really are...this transplant stuff is not for the weak of heart (no pun intended).
Fast forward to today. After the power of prayer and the miracle hand of God, A is stable and recovering from her second heart transplant. Her new heart is strong and beating on its on. She has a long road of recovery ahead of her, but it'll be a snap from where she's come from.
For those who are skeptical of prayer/miracles/God, I'm not trying to convert you. I just know what I know for a fact. God is real. He listens. He answers prayers whether it be a yes, no, or maybe. I only hope one day if you are one in doubt that you can open yourself up for the blessings only He can bestow. Faith is tangible. Believe it. "A" is living proof.
I'm just thankful that maybe my friend can relax a little. This past year has been just as hard on her as it has been for her sister. Let go and let God.
On a weather note....Today is a snow day!!!! Well, a sleet/rain/snow mix day but I'll take it. Blakely and AD can't wait to go sledding! I hope it snows enough so they can...I need a quiet snow day if you get my drift. LOL
Well, bundle up blog readers and stay warm. Later.....
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Time Really Flies
Eleven years ago today, I had my baby. AD always chastises me for saying "my" instead of "ours", but I can't help it. She lived inside of my body for 9 months, so I'm a little territorial. LOL I can remember her birth just like it was yesterday. But it wasn't yesterday...it was years ago. In reality, she will become an adult in only SEVEN years. Good grief. I'm not ready. Of course, I think I'll probably be ready because of her budding hormones. I am convinced this is God's way of preparing a mother to let go. But I'll say again...I'm not ready.
She is a wonderful young lady. She's smart, funny, and compassionate. She's beautiful on the outside and inside. It's hard for her to see this because well, that's just how she is. I just hope one day she realizes how much she has going for her and uses all of her gifts God gave her.
Everybody wants to say how bad it must be to raise a child up in this world. Lots of them want to tell you how much easier it was for them, or their kids, growing up. For those of you that really buy into that, let me tell you this:
1. Yes, the world has changed but for the better. You can see glass half empty if you want to, but I'm not wired that way. Sorry.
2. There was just as many drugs available (if you wanted them) back in your day. FYI: Crystal Meth has been around since BEFORE the 1970's.
3. Teenagers had sex then, too.
Yes, there are problems but there always has been. Each generation always thinks theirs was the best. Newsflash: positives and negatives exist in ALL generations. I don't really have time for Negative Nellies. They just irritate the crap out of me.
We are raising Blakely with morals. Hopefully, we are arming her with the values she's going to need to succeed in this old world. I'm not shy about my opinion of education. The more you have, the more you know...and that's NEVER a bad thing. No matter what though, she will find her own way.
It may be cliché to say life is what you make it, but seriously, it really is.
I don't mean to preach to you today. I apologize if it came across that way. It's just that I want to sometimes slap people to make them wake up. I can't do that....so I write on my blog.
I've got to get off here and read 16th century literature, african american folklore, AND work on my Spanish. Ahhh, the life of a college student! LOVE IT! ;) Later blog readers......
She is a wonderful young lady. She's smart, funny, and compassionate. She's beautiful on the outside and inside. It's hard for her to see this because well, that's just how she is. I just hope one day she realizes how much she has going for her and uses all of her gifts God gave her.
Everybody wants to say how bad it must be to raise a child up in this world. Lots of them want to tell you how much easier it was for them, or their kids, growing up. For those of you that really buy into that, let me tell you this:
1. Yes, the world has changed but for the better. You can see glass half empty if you want to, but I'm not wired that way. Sorry.
2. There was just as many drugs available (if you wanted them) back in your day. FYI: Crystal Meth has been around since BEFORE the 1970's.
3. Teenagers had sex then, too.
Yes, there are problems but there always has been. Each generation always thinks theirs was the best. Newsflash: positives and negatives exist in ALL generations. I don't really have time for Negative Nellies. They just irritate the crap out of me.
We are raising Blakely with morals. Hopefully, we are arming her with the values she's going to need to succeed in this old world. I'm not shy about my opinion of education. The more you have, the more you know...and that's NEVER a bad thing. No matter what though, she will find her own way.
It may be cliché to say life is what you make it, but seriously, it really is.
I don't mean to preach to you today. I apologize if it came across that way. It's just that I want to sometimes slap people to make them wake up. I can't do that....so I write on my blog.
I've got to get off here and read 16th century literature, african american folklore, AND work on my Spanish. Ahhh, the life of a college student! LOVE IT! ;) Later blog readers......
Monday, January 25, 2010
Wore Out Weekend
For the record, I'm still a little "pensive" but I think I've figured out the root. I am not ready to share, though.
Last week was pretty uneventful except for a couple of BIG things. LOL First, I was introduced to espresso!!!! Wow, who knew that you could basically drink straight coffee grounds?!?!?!!??! I LOVE IT!!! I am forever grateful to my new friend, James. Of course, my kidneys probably aren't nearly as thankful. I really have to watch it because it could easily get out of hand with my crazy class schedule.
This weekend was also Blakely's bunking party for her birthday. Saturday night we took four extremely excited girls to Don Jose's for dinner, then to see the movie Tooth Fairy. They got hopped up on Dr. Pepper and sour straws and managed to stay up ALL night. Seriously. I think they went down around 6 a.m. I had to get them back up at 730 to make early church. Mean momma. Actually, they were willing to go. Good girls.
Blakely's actual birthday is this Wednesday. It is hard to believe she will be eleven years old. My how time flies. And like clockwork with her birthday, the re-arrival of winter. I cannot remember one time in the last 11 years that it has not snowed, sleeted, or threatened to the week of her birthday. Makes it kind of hard scheduling a birthday party, so I'm glad we did it this past weekend.
How 'bout them Saints????? Honestly, I just wanted Brett Favre to get beat. I know he's old but big whoop. I think he's an arrogant egomaniac. The past three years if I had a nickel for every time he "thought" (or actually did) retire, I could retire! Yay for the Saints, AND for the Green Bay Packers. ;)
Have a great week! Later blog readers.....
Last week was pretty uneventful except for a couple of BIG things. LOL First, I was introduced to espresso!!!! Wow, who knew that you could basically drink straight coffee grounds?!?!?!!??! I LOVE IT!!! I am forever grateful to my new friend, James. Of course, my kidneys probably aren't nearly as thankful. I really have to watch it because it could easily get out of hand with my crazy class schedule.
This weekend was also Blakely's bunking party for her birthday. Saturday night we took four extremely excited girls to Don Jose's for dinner, then to see the movie Tooth Fairy. They got hopped up on Dr. Pepper and sour straws and managed to stay up ALL night. Seriously. I think they went down around 6 a.m. I had to get them back up at 730 to make early church. Mean momma. Actually, they were willing to go. Good girls.
Blakely's actual birthday is this Wednesday. It is hard to believe she will be eleven years old. My how time flies. And like clockwork with her birthday, the re-arrival of winter. I cannot remember one time in the last 11 years that it has not snowed, sleeted, or threatened to the week of her birthday. Makes it kind of hard scheduling a birthday party, so I'm glad we did it this past weekend.
How 'bout them Saints????? Honestly, I just wanted Brett Favre to get beat. I know he's old but big whoop. I think he's an arrogant egomaniac. The past three years if I had a nickel for every time he "thought" (or actually did) retire, I could retire! Yay for the Saints, AND for the Green Bay Packers. ;)
Have a great week! Later blog readers.....
Monday, January 18, 2010
Restless
I'm restless. Not restless good, but restless not so good. I've got a strong feeling of tension that I cannot seem to shake. I'm not a superstitious person, but this "sensation" is too hard to ignore. I don't know if it's impending doom, unwanted change, or just my imagination. Whatever "it" is, I don't like it.
It began a couple of days ago. Just a nagging thought process that kept worming its way into my existence. Actually, that's not very accurate. It's not one thought. It's a feeling. I can't put my finger on it. Have you ever had something on your conscience that no matter how hard you tried to shake it, it just wouldn't die down? That's what I'm talking about.
I "feel" like I'm missing something OR that I'm supposed to be doing something I'm not doing. I don't have it together. I've explored all of the following in vain to try and figure out what the heck "it" is:
1. Haiti. Maybe the horror of it all unfolding before our eyes triggered something.
2. The quest for my life's purpose.
2. School. Maybe bouncing back full-time into grad school and its subject matter is intimidating me.
3. Family. Our never-ending saga.
It's like I'm on the cusp of something really big. Maybe even something scary. I'm just hoping and praying it's big and wonderful. I'll even take scary in a good way.
Sorry to ramble, but I just needed to write this all out and share. Hopefully, it's nothing and this will all be for naught. I'll let ya know when I know.
Later blog readers.......
It began a couple of days ago. Just a nagging thought process that kept worming its way into my existence. Actually, that's not very accurate. It's not one thought. It's a feeling. I can't put my finger on it. Have you ever had something on your conscience that no matter how hard you tried to shake it, it just wouldn't die down? That's what I'm talking about.
I "feel" like I'm missing something OR that I'm supposed to be doing something I'm not doing. I don't have it together. I've explored all of the following in vain to try and figure out what the heck "it" is:
1. Haiti. Maybe the horror of it all unfolding before our eyes triggered something.
2. The quest for my life's purpose.
2. School. Maybe bouncing back full-time into grad school and its subject matter is intimidating me.
3. Family. Our never-ending saga.
It's like I'm on the cusp of something really big. Maybe even something scary. I'm just hoping and praying it's big and wonderful. I'll even take scary in a good way.
Sorry to ramble, but I just needed to write this all out and share. Hopefully, it's nothing and this will all be for naught. I'll let ya know when I know.
Later blog readers.......
Saturday, January 16, 2010
Tunica Temptations
As promised, I have uploaded pics from the Temptations concert at Sam's Town in Tunica. AWESOME show, as usual!!! I love Motown music. It's so nice to go to a concert where the audience knows the words to all the songs, AND are encouraged to sing along! LOL They are such a wonderfully talented group of guys. While there is only one remaining founding member, Otis Williams, they have managed to carry on the great tradition of Temptation music. If you ever get the chance to see them, definitely go!
I'll be seeing them again in April at the EACC Fine Arts Center here in Forrest City. I guess that makes me a groupie, huh? LOL
I'm too tired to blog much. This old lady stayed out wayyyyy too late last night, and am pooped. Have a great rest of the weekend blog readers. Later......
NOTE: If you would like to donate to the Earthquake Relief for Haiti check out the following: Donate online at www.clintonfoundation.org/haitirelief to help provide immediate relief and long-term support to earthquake survivors. Text "HAITI" to 20222 and $10 will be donated to relief efforts, charged to your cell phone bill.
Remember it is a blessing to give, rather than receive. Thanks.
Friday, January 15, 2010
2nd Semester, Haiti, Weather, and the Temptations
Well, I started my 2nd semester of grad school. I LOVE all of my classes! I am such a nerd. I'll give you a rundown just to make you jealous. ;)
Popular Literature: We are studying lit from the Vietnam War and correlating it with the war in Afghanistan. This is something I am extremely interested in, and I'm super excited!
African American Folklore: This is a way cool class. It looks at the history of black people from slavery to the present. Love the book for the class! Way cool!
16th Century Lit: OK, this is my hardest class. But I really like the teacher. She is so smart and she'll occasionally curse. ;)
Renaissance Drama (sans Shakespeare): I LOVE this instructor!! He has the best voice. I could listen to him ALL day. And he makes Renaissance lit interesting...no easy task. ;)
So far, so good. I'm also taking online Spanish. Grand total of 15 hours. Good gravy. Bring it! ;)
I was walking on the treadmill on Wednesday in tears. Haiti. One of the poorest, if not THE poorest place on Earth. Natural disasters have hit this tiny nation hard the past few years. I don't give a rat's butt what Pat Robertson says, these people NEED our help. When did we become such a selfish nation? Forget I asked that question. Say a prayer because by the grace of God go we.
I'm going to see the Temptations AGAIN tonight! AD is staying home. But he's more than gracious enough to let me go. ;) I LOVE their concerts. I know every song and they really put on a show. Again I say, I'm such a nerd!
I should've been born in the 50's and come of age in the 60's. I would've been all over the Civil and Women's rights movements! I really missed my calling. I'm still searching for my calling here. I don't think "professional student" will quite cut it. LOL
I will try to upload pics tomorrow. Have an awesome weekend! Later blog readers......
Popular Literature: We are studying lit from the Vietnam War and correlating it with the war in Afghanistan. This is something I am extremely interested in, and I'm super excited!
African American Folklore: This is a way cool class. It looks at the history of black people from slavery to the present. Love the book for the class! Way cool!
16th Century Lit: OK, this is my hardest class. But I really like the teacher. She is so smart and she'll occasionally curse. ;)
Renaissance Drama (sans Shakespeare): I LOVE this instructor!! He has the best voice. I could listen to him ALL day. And he makes Renaissance lit interesting...no easy task. ;)
So far, so good. I'm also taking online Spanish. Grand total of 15 hours. Good gravy. Bring it! ;)
I was walking on the treadmill on Wednesday in tears. Haiti. One of the poorest, if not THE poorest place on Earth. Natural disasters have hit this tiny nation hard the past few years. I don't give a rat's butt what Pat Robertson says, these people NEED our help. When did we become such a selfish nation? Forget I asked that question. Say a prayer because by the grace of God go we.
I'm going to see the Temptations AGAIN tonight! AD is staying home. But he's more than gracious enough to let me go. ;) I LOVE their concerts. I know every song and they really put on a show. Again I say, I'm such a nerd!
I should've been born in the 50's and come of age in the 60's. I would've been all over the Civil and Women's rights movements! I really missed my calling. I'm still searching for my calling here. I don't think "professional student" will quite cut it. LOL
I will try to upload pics tomorrow. Have an awesome weekend! Later blog readers......
Monday, January 11, 2010
Yes, it's official, I have lost my mind
Can You See Me? LOL
Yes, I went to the deer woods this weekend to bow hunt. I'm just gonna say I just "thought" the Liberty Bowl was cold!
Anthony and I went to Arkadelphia, AR. It's a new place we're going to join. It is BEAUTIFUL. It sits right on the Ouachita River and has lots of timber. Here are a few pics from my box stand:
Front View.
OuachitaRiver past tree line. Left.Right Side toward road.
For my non-hunters, I will explain the box stand. It's a wooden "box" on stilts. Usually it sits about 5 feet off the ground, but can go higher. This one is about 6 feet. A whole lot easier to get into than my 20 foot ladder stand. I'm just saying. ;) Anyhoo, it's open on 3 sides and is camouflaged. A simple metal chair is all there is to sit on. It's not real comfy.
I got in the stand a little after twelve. The temperature was a balmy 8 degrees. A lovely north wind was blowing 15-20 mph, and right in my face. I even googled frostbite while on the stand because I was convinced I had it! Alas, I only had frostnip.
I had been there for a couple of hours and had literally frozen to near death. I have a ton of winterwear for hunting, but apparently I don't have near enough! LOL I finally see three deer about 100 yards to my left. If it had been gun season, I would have picked one, shot it, and went on my merry way. However, bowhunting is entirely different. A wait and see, extreme patience kind of hunt. The deer must get in the 40 yards or less range in order to make a good shot. It takes them FOREVER to meander that close. Finally, they are 20 yards away. I pick one and get ready. All of the sudden, a wild hog comes barreling through the field. What the heck?!?!?!?!? All I hear is snorting and grunting. He's running directly toward the deer. They flee. He zips by my stand and there you have it. Over one hour of waiting in the subzero temps for a freaking razorback to ruin!!! Geez Louise! I was just flabbergasted. And honestly, I cursed a little. Darn hog. I did manage to see 3 more deer close to dark, but they never came close. I get down around 530p and the temp is now well below zero. Not a happy camper.
The camp is, shall we say, rustic. It IS warm, though. By this time, our cousins have arrived. We discover the pipes have completely frozen which means no water. Which means.. no shower. Which means... no indoor potty. You haven't lived until you've used the bathroom in below zero temps. I don't recommend trying it. EVER. I end up bunking with Anthony, Mike (our cousin), and his son H because we're the only stupid ones going hunting. LOL H and I get the upper bunks. Now mind you, I've been in freezing temps ALL afternoon and am just beginning to thaw. I sleep in my thermals and pjs. BIG mistake. The stove in the cabin had me stripped by midnight. Yes, I ended up in just my bra and panties. Thank the Lord I was with family is all I'm saying. H and I literally almost spontaneously combusted a couple of times. LOL I can laugh about it now, but at the time it really wasn't very funny. I didn't dare complain, though. I was storing up heat for the next day's hunt.
I get back on my stand a little after daybreak. It's still uber cold, BUT Anthony bought me a little buddy propane heater to warm me up! I love that man! I see absolutely nothing all morning. No deer, no squirrel, and thankfully, no hog. I'm pretty bummed. We go to town for lunch and I decide to get back on the stand by 1p.
SPOILER ALERT AND/OR WARNING: The following is about the death of a deer. Some of my readers may be sensitive to the inevitable elements of a hunt. I believe that certain animals were put on our Earth by God for sustenance. The deer happens to be one of them. I'm sorry if this offends my vegetarian friends. I mean no disrespect.
A little after 3p, I see this big bodied deer come out of the thicket about 115 yards to my left. I thought it was a buck. Pretty large and walked like a buck. I get the rangefinder out (tells me how far away the deer is and serves as a scope). It's a doe! She's by herself. She is extremely cautious. The wind is out of the north again and this definitely works to my advantage. She can't see or smell me. She gets about 50 yards to my left and turns to leave. For some reason, she stops and decides to keep coming my way. I wait. She stops again just a little out of range and then, she just starts walking. She's headed in front of my stand and she's not slowing down. It's now or never. She's 37 yards directly in front of me when I aim. I'm a nervous wreck. I've never killed a deer with my bow, and it's only the second time I've really hunted with it. I had to decide which pin to use and where to aim to get maximum results. I had NO ledge to prop on and was standing up. Seriously, this is not easy. I took the shot. PERFECT! She makes it 20 yards and falls dead. A direct heart hit. There will be no need to track this deer. Very painless, very quick. Yes!
I text Anthony. He, of course, tells me to watch to see which direction she runs. I'm like she's not going anywhere. I swear he didn't believe me. I totally blow apart his theory of hunting. I wear full makeup, Victoria Secret lotions, and hairspray, and still manage to see/kill deer. LOL
Honestly, I'm probably not going to bow hunt again any time soon. I didn't feel the adrenaline rush like I normally do. I'm definitely more comfortable with the gun. Not to mention, I know I'm a good shot with it, and the bow is just way more difficult to figure out. I never want to cause an animal suffering, and I'm not sure I could make such a great shot again. It was really hard. I am very proud of myself. I have killed deer with my gun, muzzleloader, and bow. Very proud. Who says girls can't hunt? ;)
After all of this, I insist on going to a hotel. I've done what I needed to do, and I want a hot shower and a temperature regulated bedroom! LOL Anthony totally agreed. Can I tell you again that I love that man!? What a great weekend!
Tomorrow it's back to reality. Grad school here I come. And the weather is supposed to be better! Yay! Later blog readers.....
Thursday, January 7, 2010
The FC a.k.a.The Frozen City
I just thought it was cold in Memphis, TN on Saturday. It is RIDICULOUSLY FRIGID here in Arkansas right NOW! We woke up to another dusting of snow (about 1/2 inch). Not much, but enough to close school. The temps have been steadily falling ALL day and we are expected to bottom out tonight near 0. Not counting 15-25mph wind gusts. Are you kidding me??? I think we're getting paid back in spades for an unusually mild summer. I'm not complaining, though. I'm glad to be alive. ;)
This week is my last week before starting back to school. I'm ready because if I don't hurry up and get something to do, well, I'll weigh 2000 lbs. Maybe I'm just in "hibernation" mode, but I'm hungry 24-7. Even my gym trips are futile. I've got to get serious.
Tonight is the BCS Championship Game. Alabama v Texas. Two teams that I pretty much cannot stand.
Texas: old SWC rivalry that I refuse to let die. Alabama: just because they need to recognize Bear Bryant is an Arkansan FIRST! LOL But I'm pulling for the Tide because they're SEC. It should be a GREAT game!
I just finished reading "Three Cups of Tea" by Greg Mortenson. I don't know how to begin to explain the preface of the book. But it's a GREAT book that stays with you long after you finish the last page. I feel extremely small and insignificant after reading it, and just pray I find my life's purpose before it's too late. I don't want to waste another minute.
To my friend in a Memphis hospital: Butterfly Blessings. This too shall pass. Hang in there.
As we go about our daily lives, please remember to take time to pray for our troops around the globe.
Stay warm! Later blog readers.......
This week is my last week before starting back to school. I'm ready because if I don't hurry up and get something to do, well, I'll weigh 2000 lbs. Maybe I'm just in "hibernation" mode, but I'm hungry 24-7. Even my gym trips are futile. I've got to get serious.
Tonight is the BCS Championship Game. Alabama v Texas. Two teams that I pretty much cannot stand.
Texas: old SWC rivalry that I refuse to let die. Alabama: just because they need to recognize Bear Bryant is an Arkansan FIRST! LOL But I'm pulling for the Tide because they're SEC. It should be a GREAT game!
I just finished reading "Three Cups of Tea" by Greg Mortenson. I don't know how to begin to explain the preface of the book. But it's a GREAT book that stays with you long after you finish the last page. I feel extremely small and insignificant after reading it, and just pray I find my life's purpose before it's too late. I don't want to waste another minute.
To my friend in a Memphis hospital: Butterfly Blessings. This too shall pass. Hang in there.
As we go about our daily lives, please remember to take time to pray for our troops around the globe.
Stay warm! Later blog readers.......
Sunday, January 3, 2010
The Ice, er I mean, Liberty Bowl
Blakely's First Razorback Game
We had pretty good seats, too!Let me preface this post by stating the following: 20 Degrees in Memphis, TN is UNacceptable ;)
This was a big day for me. I have been a Razorback fan since age 7. My parents took me to all the Hog games. I LOVE them. However, my baby at the tender age of 6 decided she loved the Florida Gators. What?!?!?!? She didn't dislike the Hogs, but she didn't love them either. My mission for this Bowl game was to turn her around. (Note to self: might want to rethink strategy if game occurs in ridiculously frigid weather) To say it was cold would be a HUGE understatement. We don't "do" this weather here in the South. One of the many perks of living in the South is the mild winters. If it's going to be that cold, well, it better be snowing. ;)
Me, Blakely, my mom & Glen, load up and head to the game. The provisions included: hand/foot warmers, scarves, toboggans, hoodies, thermal underwear, down jackets, gloves, blankets, muck boots, several pairs of socks, chapstick, AND extra money for coffee! We were ready. Let me just say.....we weren't ready. It was beyond cold. It was OK at first because well, we were excited. Then the sun went down. We began adding layers to our already over-layered selves. Didn't help much. The following pic is what my mom ended up looking like mid-point until the end of the game. LOL
Eddie Money was the half-time show. I like Eddie Money, but lip-synching kind of takes away from the overall performance. I'm just saying. He does have a great head of hair, though!
With 4 minutes left in the game, my baby is freezing (literally) and the Hogs look no better than an above average high school team. I make the crucial decision to bail. Honestly, if fifty thousand Hog faithful show up in below freezing temps they should have crushed the competition out of sheer decency to their fans. I'm glad we won, but it really wasn't much of a win to a Conference USA school in overtime. I enjoyed the end of the game much better de-frosting in the warm, cozy shuttlebus. ;)
Needless to say, my child is now even more convinced she should attend the University of Florida. Heck, I can't say that I blame her. LOL ;)
The best thing happened this morning! We woke up to SNOW! It's not much snow, only a little dusting, but snow nonetheless. Totally makes up for yesterday. ;)
Beautiful Arkansas Sunrise! Thank you Lord!Well, it's back to school this week for most. I hope all have an absolutely stellar first week of the year! Later blog readers.........
Friday, January 1, 2010
2010: Day 1
Well, Happy New Year Blog Readers!!! Hope you had as much fun ringing in the new year as I did!
I had every intention to do absolutely nothing on the first day of this year. Whatever. Apparently, I have issues with doing "nothing" because I did a whole lot of something!
Here's the rundown:
First, I went to the gym. I did 30 minutes of cardio (low-impact) and mentally prepared myself for Hades. I figured I might as well baptize myself by fire! LOL Nothing like WallyWorld on the first day of the new year. I needed to test out my "joy" resolution. I arrived sans makeup and in sweats. No list. Drum roll......I passed with flying colors!!! I managed to even smile, wave, and make "light" conversation with peeps in line. ;)
I obviously worked up an appetite at the gym AND Hades, so I treated myself to a Sonic Burger with tots. Yeah, totally erased the workout but sometimes ya just gotta live a little. ;)
Up next, power nap. I did manage to squeeze in a little "nothing" time! What a great nap! Aaaaaahhhhhh. I'm loving 2010 already.
Managed to cook dinner (spaghetti...a real stretch! lol) and watch a movie. Sidebar: I did not eat black-eyed peas today. I have followed this tradition for as long as I can remember, but I'm feeling rebellious. Shaking things up a bit. Not telling my aunt or my parents. I may be rebellious, but I'm not stupid! LOL
AD suggested we go get some hot chocolate and make a side trip to (gasp!) Hades. He wanted some frozen biscuits, and of course, RedMan. Great. Great. I should've added a disclaimer onto my resolution limiting the trips to Wal-Mart to one a day. Well, let me just say that I was most definitely tested.
I go in (still no makeup and in sweats) for what should've been a 5 minute excursion TOPS. Get the biscuits. Go to line 8 (because that's where the all-consuming tobacco lives) and time screeches to a halt. The cashier is eerily quiet. The two ladies in front of me...eerily quiet. The man in camo at the front of the line, well he's kind of staring toward the back of the store. This can only mean one thing. I know what it is, but need confirmation. I ask the lady in front of me, "so, what's up with this?" She gives me the "look" and utters two words that sends chills down most shoppers spines.......PRICE CHECK. Instantly, I bond with the other two women in line. We don't even need to speak. Our eyes are focused on camo man. The manager comes back about 4 minutes later and tells the guy that the price is not what he thought, but 19.96. And here's where I could've lost my joy.....he didn't buy the item. Geez Louise. I shake it off, and laugh. The other ladies chuckle with me as the guy walks away. Not laughing in a "butthole or insincere kind of way" but just like, "yeah, it's the first of the year and nobody's stealing my joy" kind of way.
2010 is going to be a great year! I just KNOW it! Later blog readers......
I had every intention to do absolutely nothing on the first day of this year. Whatever. Apparently, I have issues with doing "nothing" because I did a whole lot of something!
Here's the rundown:
First, I went to the gym. I did 30 minutes of cardio (low-impact) and mentally prepared myself for Hades. I figured I might as well baptize myself by fire! LOL Nothing like WallyWorld on the first day of the new year. I needed to test out my "joy" resolution. I arrived sans makeup and in sweats. No list. Drum roll......I passed with flying colors!!! I managed to even smile, wave, and make "light" conversation with peeps in line. ;)
I obviously worked up an appetite at the gym AND Hades, so I treated myself to a Sonic Burger with tots. Yeah, totally erased the workout but sometimes ya just gotta live a little. ;)
Up next, power nap. I did manage to squeeze in a little "nothing" time! What a great nap! Aaaaaahhhhhh. I'm loving 2010 already.
Managed to cook dinner (spaghetti...a real stretch! lol) and watch a movie. Sidebar: I did not eat black-eyed peas today. I have followed this tradition for as long as I can remember, but I'm feeling rebellious. Shaking things up a bit. Not telling my aunt or my parents. I may be rebellious, but I'm not stupid! LOL
AD suggested we go get some hot chocolate and make a side trip to (gasp!) Hades. He wanted some frozen biscuits, and of course, RedMan. Great. Great. I should've added a disclaimer onto my resolution limiting the trips to Wal-Mart to one a day. Well, let me just say that I was most definitely tested.
I go in (still no makeup and in sweats) for what should've been a 5 minute excursion TOPS. Get the biscuits. Go to line 8 (because that's where the all-consuming tobacco lives) and time screeches to a halt. The cashier is eerily quiet. The two ladies in front of me...eerily quiet. The man in camo at the front of the line, well he's kind of staring toward the back of the store. This can only mean one thing. I know what it is, but need confirmation. I ask the lady in front of me, "so, what's up with this?" She gives me the "look" and utters two words that sends chills down most shoppers spines.......PRICE CHECK. Instantly, I bond with the other two women in line. We don't even need to speak. Our eyes are focused on camo man. The manager comes back about 4 minutes later and tells the guy that the price is not what he thought, but 19.96. And here's where I could've lost my joy.....he didn't buy the item. Geez Louise. I shake it off, and laugh. The other ladies chuckle with me as the guy walks away. Not laughing in a "butthole or insincere kind of way" but just like, "yeah, it's the first of the year and nobody's stealing my joy" kind of way.
2010 is going to be a great year! I just KNOW it! Later blog readers......
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