What's the use?

Is there a reason to get mad? If so, should you open your mouth to speak when you are mad? I think the answer to both is YES. I can not help wonder how some people manage to keep their mouths shut? I am so impressed by those who can actually do that? What is their secret???? I, for one, have always managed to speak up and/or put my foot in my mouth. Is this because of my mom, dad, or aunt? or even farther back a grandma or a papaw? I am positive it has to be a passed on gene from one of these. Should you always think before you speak? I actually tend to do this (i happen to think quickly), but usually it's what I think I can get away with. I think I should have been an activist of some kind. I probably would have been assassinated, but I would atleast have been doing SOMETHING.
Is Blakely going to be like me? If she is I haven't decided if that's a good thing or not.